\u201cNo strings attached.\u201d Unfortunately for many of us, that phrase raises a red flag. We live in a world of hidden agendas and illegible fine print. Unconditional giving, though not impossible, is not as common as it could be. How often do we give of ourselves \u2014 whether it\u2019s money, food, time, whatever \u2014 and expect nothing from the other person in return. How often do we do something or give something simply because it is the right thing to do?<\/p>\n
Everyone will answer differently, of course. For me, the answer to that question is \u201cnot often enough.\u201d There is always room for improvement. And improvement comes from experience.<\/p>\n
One of my favorite, and most insightful, experiences with unconditional giving happened when my son and I staffed the food pantry at church. My husband, son and I were fairly new to Shepherd of the Valley and we appreciated the fact people had only to be hungry to get food from the shelves. The food pantry is unconditional, no questions asked. So, as much as I hate to admit this, there was a skeptical voice in the back of my mind asking the nagging question, \u201cCould any of our visitors be taking advantage of this free food? Do they really need to be here?\u201d<\/p>\n
My then 3-year-old son and I volunteered often. He loved watching our visitors fill bags with groceries. He would see a variety of folks shake my hand, say \u201cthank you\u201d or \u201cGod bless you,\u201d and occasionally give me a hug.<\/p>\n
I asked my young son, \u201cWho visits the pantry?\u201d He shrugged his shoulders and said, \u201cPeople who need food.\u201d Through his 3-year old eyes, the families who got groceries were no different from us. He didn\u2019t see anything other than people who needed food. He didn\u2019t question whether they deserved it.<\/p>\n
I watched my young son give so easily. And with enthusiasm. The skeptical voice in my head faded to a whisper. I stopped the nagging questions and just started giving.<\/p>\n
So far, my son, who is now 14, has not started to ask questions about whether or not people deserve help. But some day he may question giving. He may learn the hard way that giving can bring heartache, when your efforts are unappreciated or when you learn that someone has wrongly taken advantage of your kindness.<\/p>\n
These things do happen. My prayer for him is that these questions, and heartaches, never dampen his spirit of giving. I pray that giving unconditionally always makes sense to him.<\/p>\n
Our family has grown plus one since those days, and my 14-year-old now has a younger brother. And they both have a youthful enthusiasm for giving. It is an ongoing reminder for my husband and me of how simple and fulfilling it is to give. No strings attached.<\/p>\n
\u2022 Becky Corson is a member of Shepherd of the Valley Lutheran Church.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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